Well I haven't written for a while so thought I better keep all you wonderful people updated. I had a lovely Xmas at home with my family & friends. It was good to have a break & contemplate new beginnings for the new year. I haven't made any real New Years resolutions but will make an effort to be a bit healthier, happier & to spend my time more wisely. Firstly, I have decided to change my schedule somewhat so I can spend a bit more time at home & on other things. I am only offering bookings of 2hrs or longer & with 24hrs notice at least. Plus it means I get to spend a bit more time with some new & old friends rather than a rushed 1hr appointment. I was a bit apprehensive about this but so far so good. Secondly, I have begun a whole new project which I am very excited about. I can't give too much away at the moment but all will be revealed in due course. Oh & I nearly forgot to mention. After many attempts at arranging & rearranging my photoshoot I have finally had them done. It may be a few weeks before I have them back though. I haven't even seen them myself yet. But as soon as I have them, they will be up on the site for you all to see. Let me know what you think.
When people find out I study psychology the first question they ask is 'am I a case study?'. With my quick response being 'no, don't worry!'. However I am a people watcher & people are curious beings so I guess I am always studying people, just not in the way you may imagine. Not only that but I am nowhere near the point of being able to 'psychologically read' people or analysis their behaviour.....although I'm sure I can probably provide an answer to some aspects of their lives ;-)
The other question I frequently get asked is 'how did you come to being an escort?' And quite frankly there is no easy answer for this. It was many years ago & my memory is not what is used to be, but from what I remember I just have it a go & realised I was able to do it & enjoy it. The plus side is it gives me the flexibility to explore other things, the money is good, I get to be my own boss and I enjoy meeting new people, travelling and all the other aspects of it. There are only a few drawbacks. The main one being that it is unstable & unreliable career. One week it is super busy, the following I don't even have so much as an enquiry. You never know if a booking will go ahead or if it may be cancelled (or worse unconfirmed!). And the other drawback is that I am away from home a lot & miss out on having a 'normal' life. Having said that...I have tried a normal life a few times in the past & I'm not sure I'm that suited to it. Haha.
I'm not apprehensive when I'm waiting for someone to arrive or visit a new friend at their hotel. I don't get nervous waiting to see what/who is behind the door. I rarely even think about it to be honest. I'm not sure if that's because I have gotten used to it or whether it even existed to begin with. Who knows?!
Another question I have been asked is 'do I keep a journal of the people I meet?'. I don't. Maybe i should have as I could probably make a small fortune from it but I do have many memories of the last 8years of working in this industry. Maybe one day I'll share them (with names & dates excluded of course).
Anyway I think that makes up for the lack of posts recently.
Happy New Year, lets make it a good one!x